Child Support vs Child’s MOTHER Support

This blog will probably get me in a lot of trouble with the females but I have to stay true to ME!  I am a divorced mother of 4 and I have very strong beliefs about child support. I believe that the non-custodial parent should be held accountable and responsible for half of the CHILD'S living expenses and that's all, not half of the mother's living expenses or even more as is often sometimes, at least with wealthy people.  These child support orders of  $25 - $50k per month are just ridiculous!  What child needs that much money to be taken care of? I bet if the judges in these situations held the custodial parents responsible for the same amount as the… Continue reading Child Support vs Child's MOTHER Support

I’m NOT A Rider….

I get so sick of hearing, "I'm a rider" or "I'm a ride or die chick".  I'm going to be perfectly honest, I AM NOT A RIDER..... I'm a mofo DRIVER B! (Rick James voice)!  I don't traffic drugs, won't help anybody do any dirt, NONE OF THAT, but this blog isn't about that silly "hood" ish! In saying that doesn't in any way mean I'm not loyal to the people I decide to rock with but I'm loyal to myself first and foremost.  Some people think just because they aren't cool with a person I'm not supposed to be.  That's high school, what part of I'm a grown azz woman is that? I deal with every person as the… Continue reading I'm NOT A Rider....

My House Is GLASS – I Have Called My Children Dumb/Stupid

That's a powerful blog title huh?  You're immediately calling me a bad parent for saying let alone "admitting" that I've done it huh?  Well let me tell you why I'm writing this blog... I tell you GOD works in ways that are unbeknownst to me but RIGHT ON TIME!  I have this new group of kids blogging on my site and as I was looking over the comments people posted in response to the blogs, I notice 2 in particular.  The comments were from teens who said their parent and/or parents call them dumb and/or stupid and how bad they feel about it, and I thought.... Damn, I've said that to my kids on several occasions.  Don't get me wrong, I don't… Continue reading My House Is GLASS - I Have Called My Children Dumb/Stupid

I’m All For Polygamy!

I know a lot of you are probably like, what the hell, is K.I.M smoking crack or something?  Let me explain to you what I mean. I watch the television show Big Love and while I realize it's a TV show, I also realize that there are many people practicing polygamy due to religious beliefs and even many more practicing it that don't even know they are because there are many men with multiple families, they just aren't legally married. What's so different between the two because those that openly (open between the participating people) practice polygamy aren't legally married either, at least in the eyes of the State, the State only recognizes the FIRST marriage. I believe that we are living in… Continue reading I'm All For Polygamy!

My House Is Glass – Leave The Kids Out Of It

When I started blogging I made a pact with myself that I wasn't gonna' withhold anything from you guys.  I keep it real always because we are all human and I don't feel like anyone can judge me, I also think that my stories may be able to help someone who's going through something similar. So here's the 2nd installment in my "My House Is Glass" blog series.... Many of you know I was married before and that I have 4 kids.  What many of you don't know is how estranged my situation was.  I divorced my husband against his will and he was very against it and hated me thereafter.  He hated me so much that he took it out on… Continue reading My House Is Glass - Leave The Kids Out Of It

War on HATE!!! Say Hello To My Little Friend (Scarface voice)

Everyone please take a close look at the face of HATE above... her name is Rici you can follow her on Twitter at @iamrici DISCLAIMER: Normally I wouldn't even address this nonsense but things have taken an EXTREME turn for the worst, this idiot has directed this craziness towards my teenage daughter, hence this post. This has been going on for over a year and a half and it's getting pretty old.  When it was directed at me specifically, I just laughed and threw a few jabs here and there whenever I felt prompted but things are going to get very serious because now it's involving children and I draw the line at children. THE BACK STORY: Long story… Continue reading War on HATE!!! Say Hello To My Little Friend (Scarface voice)

The High Road

I live everyday as if it's my last and I try to be the best "me" possible.  I realize that I'm a work in progress and I'm trying my best to live the life that I want to and at the same time the life that I think I should. Some seem to think that it gets easier as you get older but I have to admit, as I approach 40 this year (God willing) I'm finding it harder and harder to "rise above".  I admittedly have very thick skin and not too much bothers me but ever so often, I wish I was 20 something again, just so I can do some ish I want to do so BADDDDDDDDDDDDDD, but… Continue reading The High Road

Maternal Instinct

I know that there are a lot of females having children and there seems to be some type of phenomenon because there is a very large amount of these females just "dropping and dropping".  Dropping and dropping is a term I came up with for the females that have and keep on having children and "dropping" them off at their mother's house.  Grandparents are raising a lot of children these days, smh... When it comes to these "breeders" I believe there may be some sort of disconnect and they possibly don't understand the maternal instinct thing because I'm a woman who has and still is raising 4 kids, all of which whom grew up and/or lived with ME and my maternal… Continue reading Maternal Instinct

Do Not Microwave!

I swear the society we live in and people in general just have no patience.  I must admit I'm one of the worst offenders but I have no problem waiting for GREATNESS or anything that GOD has intended for me cus' I realize perfection takes time.  With regards to traffic and lines...... yup, I'm on some road rage ish! For those of you going through stuff in life and we all are but to those who want to give up cus' things just seem not to be happening fast enough for you.  Calm down, chill out, it's going to happen just when it's supposed to and not 1 minute sooner.  You can't put your life in a microwave. K.I.M…

Valentines Day Tips For Men

Yall know I love the fellas so I decided to help yall out with this little Valentine's Day thing this year.  I implore you guys to not spend an exorbitant amount of money, especially if you don't have it for some bullsh*t day created by...... (who the heck came up with Valentine's Day anyway, Hallmark, some florist?) capitalist people. With that being said, if you show your lady you love her everyday then this day isn't that important.  If you have a lady that's demanding all this extreme ish just so she can show her friends, tell that bish to grow the hell up!  A REAL woman isn't going to require or even respect the fact that you'd mess up the… Continue reading Valentines Day Tips For Men

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